Are you a loser? Congratulations in advance!

You feel miserable at times. Not able to give your best at times due to certain constrains, situations or people. You feel like a loser, unworthy, out of place. You feel avoided, dejected and insulted. There is nobody to see your value, your ambitions, your wishes, no body to motivate you, guide you, you see people going ahead you as achievers & winners and you way behind them, alone.

Congratulations! You may think why?

Because you know where you are standing now and very well know this is not I have to be and you have that zest within you to reach there. You have realised the gap. You have a dream which is unfulfilled now. So what will you do next?

Firstly,

The deepest your ache is, the highest is the potential in you  to prove. What is required is to have a focus which is undivided, undiluted and unquenchable. When there is focus within you, the ways you will select comes in front of you unknowingly, as you are ready to go in the way you want to go and know where you have to reach, you automatically walk though the way opening for you.

The Constrains will change, the Situations will change and the people will change as change is inevitable but what should remain unchanged is your focus to reach where you want to. The Universe will open ways for you.

Secondly,

When you feel like a loser, you miss to see the wonderful blessing god has given you. You are looking at the closed doors so long that you miss to find the wonders within you. Challenges are given to test your strength and for you to cherish the sweetness of your victory once you turn back and see after reaching your goal.

Obstacles are given to make you stronger and wiser to live your life. More the obstacles, more powerful you come out finally and small hindrances cannot stop you any longer. So we should be ideally thankful for any difficult situation our life which is a great teacher as it gives valuable experiences for you to live your life wisely.

Thirdly,

Losing situations makes you humble. Any humble decision which you will take will come as a saviour to you when required , rather than the decisions you take to pamper your pride. Also when you compare your situation with others or an ideal situation, you are trying to live others life, which you feel good for you. But it’s important to understand that every life is unique and you can’t actually copy others life. You will miss out the fun in living your life then.

Surrendering to the current situations without regret for past and high desire for future makes you wise enough to live your life in present moment and you then tend to take right decisions for your future, free from fear and greed. A Humble person tends to get gods insights more clearl