Are you a loser? Congratulations in advance!

You feel miserable at times. Not able to give your best at times due to certain constrains, situations or people. You feel like a loser, unworthy, out of place. You feel avoided, dejected and insulted. There is nobody to see your value, your ambitions, your wishes, no body to motivate you, guide you, you see people going ahead you as achievers & winners and you way behind them, alone.

Congratulations! You may think why?

Because you know where you are standing now and very well know this is not I have to be and you have that zest within you to reach there. You have realised the gap. You have a dream which is unfulfilled now. So what will you do next?

Firstly,

The deepest your ache is, the highest is the potential in you  to prove. What is required is to have a focus which is undivided, undiluted and unquenchable. When there is focus within you, the ways you will select comes in front of you unknowingly, as you are ready to go in the way you want to go and know where you have to reach, you automatically walk though the way opening for you.

The Constrains will change, the Situations will change and the people will change as change is inevitable but what should remain unchanged is your focus to reach where you want to. The Universe will open ways for you.

Secondly,

When you feel like a loser, you miss to see the wonderful blessing god has given you. You are looking at the closed doors so long that you miss to find the wonders within you. Challenges are given to test your strength and for you to cherish the sweetness of your victory once you turn back and see after reaching your goal.

Obstacles are given to make you stronger and wiser to live your life. More the obstacles, more powerful you come out finally and small hindrances cannot stop you any longer. So we should be ideally thankful for any difficult situation our life which is a great teacher as it gives valuable experiences for you to live your life wisely.

Thirdly,

Losing situations makes you humble. Any humble decision which you will take will come as a saviour to you when required , rather than the decisions you take to pamper your pride. Also when you compare your situation with others or an ideal situation, you are trying to live others life, which you feel good for you. But it’s important to understand that every life is unique and you can’t actually copy others life. You will miss out the fun in living your life then.

Surrendering to the current situations without regret for past and high desire for future makes you wise enough to live your life in present moment and you then tend to take right decisions for your future, free from fear and greed. A Humble person tends to get gods insights more clearl

Sharing - Some thoughts!

SHARING- Some thoughts!

The Meaning of Sharing has got a new outlook altogether now a days. We share forwards and messages in Facebook and Whats up. It is a matter of happiness & Pride for all of us to read, enjoy and pass on the good ones. Its Impact on each of us that decides the reach & relevance of what’s been shared. In other way does it ultimately help to build love and peace; if the ultimate path to Love and Peace is sharing?

When do you like to share?

You share in the following circumstances: 1) If you have done something incredibly well, 2) If your family & friends have done something incredibly well, 3) If you would like to promote some ideas or message, 4) If you want to build an image of yourself 5) If you want to help some by spreading message.

Good, looks like we all have got the point; anything to add??

The Word sharing also has another perspective: For long it has remained preaching than practice.

Sharing the World, Resources, and Beliefs & Responsibilities without encroaching to what others own. Hence Sharing means Live and Let Live within your boundaries, respecting others rights and with an intention of mutual benefit than exploiting theirs for your benefits. Sharing here does not say give it free; but It’s giving & respecting others rights first. If you want to give excess rights and resources to others with no return of benefit, then it’s called charity. If you share your resources and talents and equip others to have their rights and increased value, there by creating value to you and others is an ideal sharing.  If everybody does their part of sharing well, all have enough and there is no requirement of charity at all. There is equality in sharing but in charity there is inequality.

Intent of word sharing gives you its real output when it’s used for mutual benefits.  If everybody has enough, the resultant is Peace and Love in the world!

It’s relevant to note the words of Jesus Christ here; Give to other if you have two, it’s merely not the objects or money what you have extra, it is also your knowledge, your talent, your ideas, your experience and above all your peace & Love. It is then, an important responsibility, to achieve it for us first and then, give. It is also interesting to note, what you sow, so you reap. So what you have given comes back to you in abundance.

We need to just monitor, is the current scenario in the world proportional to the shares we do? Otherwise it’s time to think about the quality of sharing we do! Next time when we share, it’s important to think about the mutual value we create. Also the value we create to the world for its peace & Love.